Ask the Beauty Expert Debbi Telli is a certified dermatician, a state licensed aesthetician, and an accomlished make-up artist and a member of the National Cosmetic Tattooing Association and the Florida Medical Esthetic Association. Waxing for Hair Removal Q: I was just curious about doing some waxing on my upper lip, but before I go through with it for the first time, I have to clear up some facts. Before I wax again, how long does the hair have to be? I am worried that it will be very noticeable (because I have black hair) and that it will appear coarser. Also, can you recommend a good home waxing kit that is inexpensive but is effective? Are there any cons of waxing that I should know about before I do it? Melanie A: Melanie First, let me clear up a popular myth about waxing. Hair waxing does not accelerate the growth or thickness of hair follicles nor does it effect the coarseness. Hair should be at least 1/8" long before waxing. If you are trying to remove upper lip hair, my suggestion would be to contact a dermatologist who performs laser hair removal. Find a professional who uses Light Sheer by Coherent, it is the best laser machine out there. You'll need a couple of treatments to have 85% permanent removal of the hair. Unfortunately, each session can cost you between $100-$200 per session. Although the investment may seem scary initially for your wallet, the good news is that it is a permanent solutions. Waxing is not permanent and the cost of home-waxing systems can add up over years. But if you decide to do home waxing than any of the over the counter products work fine. You will find that each contain the same active ingredients and will temporarily remove your lip hair. It normally takes about 2-3 weeks for hair to grow long enough to repeat the process. • Ask Debbi your questions