Dr. Betti Hertzberg Ressler is a Board Certified Pediatrician on staff at Miami Children's Hospital. Dr. Hertzberg developed the toilet training video "Let's Go Potty." She is the co-author of "The Doctor's Book of Home Remedies for Children."
Question: How young is too young for daycare? What are the effects of daycare on an infant? I am an emergency physician and my husband is in school. I am the primary (only) wage earner and will have to go back to work after childbirth after about 3 months. We can probably arrange for him to stay at home for 2 to 3 months after that, so I am considering in home daycare at the age of 5-6 months for about 25-30 hours a week. Is that too early for daycare or too much daycare at that age?
This situation is one in which I can say..been there, done that!
The question of "How young is too young?" for daycare is a very
difficult question to answer.
I'm sure that you see your share of illness, especially ones due to viruses
and the like. Anytime you have more than one child in a setting, there is
bound to be spread of illness, especially upper respiratory.
The younger the child, the greater risk of getting whatever is going around.
In a smaller setting, such as homecare, there obviously is a lower rate of
Fortunately, most of what infants this young are at risk for are the viruses
that cause colds, flu-like illness and gastroenteritis. What many people
don't realize is that most of these illnesses are spread directly by the
Overall, the less number of children in any one setting, the less chance of
spread of the germs that cause illness. Hint Hint! Breast feeding will
increase your baby's immune system and help to prevent or at least lessen
the severity of symptoms, especially of respiratory and gastro.
At 6 months, your baby's immune system should be fairly proficient as
compared to the first three months of life.
A very important thing to remember is being comfortable with the caretaker of
Too much daycare? This is sometimes not a matter of choice when considering
your career and the many years that you will have with your baby as he or she
grows. Please don't feel too guilty. Guilt is a normal human response that is
fostered by well meaning family and friends. (It's also genetic!).
Parenting is a combination of wonderful and not so wonderful times. Obstacles
will be dissolved once you become more comfortable in your role as a parent.
Both you and your husband will become more relaxed as time goes on. Routine
and consistency are important in all of child rearing.
Please enjoy your family and career!
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This information is not intended to be a substitute for visiting your pediatrician. If you or your child has specific concerns, you should see your doctor for a diagnosis and treatment.